Mike and I have had a lot of added stress at home recently,not only with knowing we will be moving to Dallas but with our relationship with the kids. Ashley and I are fine now,and I feel like we are developing a really good relationship,but Alex and I (and Mike) are struggling. Alex has Asperger's,so he has a hard time with social interaction,but I have been around him for 6 years now,I would think he would be used to me by now. Alex did admit that he has a hard time getting close to me because of the issues with his mother and I. It's hard though to feel like a failure in the step parenting dept,but I have to wait for Alex to come around,because I have really tried everything to develop a relationship with him,but it is going to depend on when he is ready because frankly I am exhausted from the constant attitude and disrespect...no one said blended families came easy.
Well,like I may have mentioned,we are now entering our 11th month of TTC,they say 90% of healthy couples will conceive within 12 months of trying...but my BT does throw a wrench into the mix. We are using the Clearblue easy fertility monitor this month,because it has a very high success rate of pinpointing ovulation (fun stuff right?),so we are hoping that may help. Either way we may go ahead and wait to see a new RE in Dallas after we move. I don't feel it would be wise to begin clomid or any other treatment with Dr.Hales only a month before we move. In other news,I am a huge fan of thebump.com message boards,and the ladies had been talking ALOT about a "baby psychic" named Cheri,and she has actually been right about quite a few of their pregnancies,so for $10 I said what the hell...here is what she predicted!
Hi heather
Thanks for being patient with me while I got back to your reading. They show you guys having a BOY and they relate him to SEPT so this is either birth month, conceive month or the month you find out in.
When it comes to your son, I am seeing him as someone who is always interested in how things work. You will find him to be able to pay close attention the mechanisms of things and then trying it out for himself. You will find that he has so much fun with trying to figure it out himself and you will be amazed with the type of things that he knows and you didn't realize that he figured it out already.
When it comes to your son, hes someone who is always going to be doing something> loves to keep himself occupied and is not one to want to just sit there and do nothing. Hes going to enjoy watching TV as long as its something that is entertaining, a bit fast paced and action based. Otherwise hes playing with his toys, using his own imagination and just having a good time. Hes always going to love playing with other kids and seeing him always calling on other kids in the neighbourhood to play.
Loves playing in forts, and often wanting to take some of the blankets outside and making a fort. They are showing a few of them getting wrecked, but he is pretty good about taking fairly good care of it.
When it comes to your son, they are showing school being "easy" for him and I am seeing you often giving him extra activities to challenge him a bit more and really feed into his curiosity. They are showing him always up for any challenge and will always help when needed.
When it comes to career paths, they are showing your son linked to working in an engineering field. I am seeing alot of specific mechanical type parts, things like fuses and other type "plugs". I am not sure what these parts do.
When it comes to marriage I am seeing him closer to 26. They will have two girls of their own.
Let me know if you have any questions
Best Wishes
Cheri
Side note- Mike agreed that this sounds just like his and Alex's personalities...so we will see!
Best Wishes
Cheri
Side note- Mike agreed that this sounds just like his and Alex's personalities...so we will see!
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